Showing posts with label Mom. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Mom. Show all posts

Friday, January 28, 2011

The Women In My Life

On Saturday I had the privilege of being with the women in my life.
There were four generations of us gathered together
to share hugs and chat and rejoice in our love.

I just can't get enough of my four granddaughters ...
Mayci (4), Gracyn (5), Charlotte (8 mo), & Avery (6 1/2)
They exude excitement for life & make me feel like a child again.



Nancy & I relish every moment that we have with Mom.
We are so grateful for the things she has taught us
and that we can now take care of her like she took care of us.
I never laugh more than when I am with my sisters.


My daughters love to play and learn together.
We never run out of conversation or projects.
They are my inspiration.
Sheryl, Marisa, Kristen, Wendy, Melanie
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Tuesday, August 12, 2008

Jo's Home Make-over

My sister, Jolene, is one of my very best friends.
We're as different as night and day,
but isn't it true that opposites attract?
Over the past 12 years Jo has gone back to school and received
both her batchelor's and master's degrees
and has spent 8 years teaching young minds.
I love my sister!
And I love to organize.
SO...
I drove to Henderson, Nevada, with my Mom to spend 8 delightful days
working side by side with Jo
while organizing her home.

We started the job by emptying the kitchen cupboards,
tossing a few old or unused items and then putting it back together again.
Mom occupied her time by doing some light reading in the telephone book.
(There's no explaining some people's taste in literature.)
Jo retrieved one of Neal's watercolors of our Dad in the Army.

Eventually we worked our way into the closet where Jo said a fond farewell
to two garbage bags full of clothing that she's been hanging onto
for nearly two decades!
We sorted and organized several bins of fabrics,
finding all manner of treasure as we worked.

As we gathered, sorted, tossed, and organized from one room to the next
there was constant laughter and we sang a song of liberation!
Change is difficult and letting go can be painful,
but we celebrated as we watched the garbage bags become filled with unessential clutter
...some that made its way to the landfill, and much that will be
donated to the nearest charity organization.

Jo and I managed to work in time to visit the local Curves club to keep in shape.

My nephew, Neal, and his wife, Stefanie spent several days at Jo's
before taking their cute girls, Madelyn & Lydia, and heading east
for art school in New York.

On Sunday my niece, Tara, her husband, Josh, and their five children,
Kayla, Kenny, Kara, Kimber, and Kami, joined the group for a BBQ.
I loved getting to know the kids better while watching them play,
engage in a pillow fight with Grandpa, and giggle while keeping a balloon airborne.

Rendal was on the family farm most of the week, but came home for the weekend.
He tells us that his shiner came from falling off a 6-foot ladder.

We three girls,
Mom, Jo, and I,
had a wonderful week together
and felt a bit of emotion when the time came for us to head home.

As I've contemplated the purpose of our tasks this past week, I've come to realize that there are few of us who do not have excess clutter in our lives. Perhaps William Morris was on the right track when he said:

Have nothing in your houses that you do not know to be useful or believe to be beautiful.

Or Vernon Howard's words:

You have succeeded in life when all you really want is only what you really need.

I think I'll try to remember that as I begin liberating my own home, mind, & spirit.